How many of us can point to a priest who’s made a difference in our lives, some from long ago and others just recently? It could be an encouraging comment, some advice for direction, or presence at a difficult moment.

A new way to share those wonderful priest-focused stories is now being offered by Nod to the Collar. The ministry is a platform for individuals to express their appreciation for our devoted priests.

At Nod to the Collar, anyone can submit a short essay about a priest who has been important or inspiring, including specific examples or anecdotes. Artwork, audio or video are also welcome.

“Our sole purpose is to create a loving space where we can share our stories and show appreciation to the incredible priests who tirelessly serve us,” shared John Russell founder. “We are lay Catholics without an agenda.”

The site reminds all the good and holy priests that they are valued, loved and supported by encouraging individuals who are truly grateful for the impact on their lives.

Some of the submissions are funny. Others are poignant. All reflect how much our priests mean to the faithful.

Russell noted the negative effect the abuse crisis had on the vast majority of excellent priests. “While the media was coming down hard on the abusers, we could see a fatigue setting in with good priests. Their vocation was getting unfairly painted with a broad brush when, in fact, the overwhelming majority of Catholic clergy are wonderful human beings who turn over their entire lives to Our Lord and the service of others.”

He continued, “We decided to think of ways we could give priests a shout-out, a pat on the back, a thank-you, or a ‘nod,’ if you will. So many Catholics in their journeys of faith have had priests help along the way: baptisms, weddings, counseling, lending an ear during a family crisis.”

“Being a priest today is challenging, with a looming cloud over the vocation. Thirty dioceses are facing financial distress due to the bankruptcy caused by heinous acts of child sexual abuse. A small number of priests have scarred numerous victims and families, and we stand with and support those victims.”

But many more people have had very beneficial experiences, even life-altering experiences, with priests who are devoted to their vocation and the service of God, he underscored.

Recently, Father Gerard Gentleman interviewed Russell and his daughter, Heather, on the Catholic Faith Network. Russell described the reaction of many Catholics when they learn of the new platform to share their stories and their gratitude for the priests who have made a positive impact in their lives.

Russell recalled a priest coming to his house when his son was dying a few years ago. After hearing the young man’s confession, Russell was driving the priest home when he commented that the many difficult situations priests encounter cannot be easy. He asked the priest what he enjoys and what makes him happy. “He said, ‘When someone comes to confession and says it’s been 30 years since their last one.’”

That comment highlighted the devotion of priests to their purpose: to lead the faithful to heaven.

Asked about the reaction of priests to the “Nod to the Collar” initiative, Russell said those who are highlighted on the site are appreciative. “They are called to their vocation to shepherd the flock and not for a pat on the back. But they are human, too, and during these times when there are so many negatives out there, we are finding they appreciate the lay community recognizing their critical role in our spiritual journey to eternity. We interviewed many priests in doing our research prior to launching ‘Nod,’ and it became quite clear that they feel a little beaten up and in need of some love.”